Dr. Poh Siew Aing married Ambassador-at-large Tommy Koh in 1967 and moved to the United States where Koh served as Singapore’s permanent Representative to the United Nations and Singapore's fourth Ambassador to the United States between 1968 and 1990. As an ambassador’s wife, Poh was actively involved in the social, cultural, and philanthropic life of the city. Her involvement enabled then-ambassador Koh to gain visibility, relevance and access through different social networks. While in the United States, Poh wore formal cheongsam to diplomatic functions, following the example of Mdm Kwa Geok Choo (wife of former Prime Minister Lee Kuan Yew). This cheongsam was inspired by the 1920s cheongsam worn by the Song sisters, and was worn by Poh following her return from the United States. Despite no longer formally being an Ambassador’s wife, Poh continued to model diplomacy in her choice of cheongsam. For instance, this cheongsam was tailored from fabric purchased in Burma.
